Thoroughly
Modern Madam
By DAN
FESPERMAN
Baltimore Sun Staff
It was December 1995
when Angelika Potter broke the news to her parents: She
was starting her own escort service, offering attractive
young females to the men of Frederick for $250 an hour.
Her dad absorbed the blow,
then slowly shook his head.
"I knew that you'd end
up somehow in the porn industry," he said. "I
always knew that."
Then he sat down to help
write the business plan.
Thus did Potter set herself
on a collision course with notoriety. Now, nearly two years
after a police raid put her escort service out of business,
she is aswirl in a spicy small-town brew of gossip and lawsuits.
Attorneys, reporters and local gadflies are fighting to
get their hands on her "little black book" -- a computerized
list of her clients, great and small -- while callers besiege
her with death threats and offers to save her soul.
Potter, 39, is of two
minds on this long-running game of nudge and wink.
Her sex-trade alter ego,
Steffie, is laughing all the way to the bank. Salacious
local headlines have attracted the attention of news media,
from Hustler magazine to the BBC, bringing fan mail
from overseas and boosting hit counts on her X-rated website,
where no subject seems off limits to any adult with a valid
credit card.
For the lively Steffie,
whose business card proclaims her to be an "exhibitionist-slut,"
the uproar is a noisy validation of her credo that "marketing
is everything," a slogan she has lived by whether selling
used cars in Gaithersburg or stripping for GIs at a Playboy
Club in Germany.
Potter's private self,
on the other hand, seems to have her doubts about this mess,
wishing that it would all go away. This is the Potter who
arrives at her door for an interview in denim overalls and
no makeup, warily on the lookout for nuts and cranks; the
one who pays a mortgage, raises a family and is pre-occupied
with life's more pedestrian bumps and grinds. She can sound
beaten down as the lawsuits come and go, chattering with
just enough of an accent to hint at her childhood in Bamberg,
one of those picturesque German towns with cobbled streets,
ornate clock towers and timbered medieval homes.
Plenty of subjects are
off limits for the private Potter - her children, for starters.
And her husband, who goes along with this regime by introducing
himself as Julian Kay. It turns out to be a pseudonym, albeit
with a clever twist: Julian Kay was the title role in the
film American Gigolo.
Also off limits is whose
names are listed in the purported "black book." One reason
is that, besides clients, the computer records also list
her plumber, her veterinarian and her babysitter, who happens
to be married to a policeman. Nor were all of her clients
simply "johns." There was the prominent local female activist,
for example, who hired a dancer as a gag for her husband's
retirement party. Some of the guys were just hiring dancers
for bachelor parties.
Add up the two sides and
you end up with a question: How did a friendly, chatty,
well-educated product of the German middle class become
the so-called "Madam of Frederick," the most notorious woman
for miles around in a town better known for its skyline
of steeples.
You can begin looking
for answers in the red light district of her old hometown,
back when she was still a high school kid named Angelika
Kurz.
German roots
About all a tourist sees
of Bamberg are such sites as the majestic old Rathaus, or
the 500-year old Schlenkerla pub specializing in a smoke-flavored
brew called Rauchbier. The town's blend of gothic, renaissance
and baroque architecture is so well preserved that it's
on a United Nations list of world cultural landmarks.
You notice a bit more
when you grow up there.
"I went to school every
morning on the train, and right beside the train station
was a big X-rated cinema, with all the posters outside ...
and we were like, 'Ah, she's nice,' and after a while you
just don't even look anymore," Potter said. "The red light
district was a few blocks around the corner."
She began cutting classes
to hang out in grunge bars or wheel around on friends' Harleys.
"My parents would turn
over every time they thought of this, because they raised
me to be this moral upstanding citizen ... and here I liked
hanging out with motorcycle gangs and in raunchy bars. I
think it was such an attraction because my parents were
middle class. We had good education, nice clothes, manners.
I went to boarding school in Switzerland for a while. So
it was not like I [lacked for] anything."
Her parents were entrepreneurs,
often preoccupied with minding the store, a boat dealership.
Potter's generation came of age during West Germany's postwar
"economic miracle," a society that kept one eye on the balance
sheet and another warily on the East Germans and Russians
lurking behind the Iron Curtain.
By age 17, she'd met a
32-year-old stripper named Jeannie, who worked at the Playboy
Club in nearby Bayreuth.
"She told me, all you
have to do is go there, look pretty and smile, and men will
throw money at you. I'm like, yeah, right."
But Angelika decided
to lie about her age and give stripping a try, finding to
her surprise that Jeannie was right. Wide-eyed young men,
many of them American soldiers, cheered her every move,
and she liked it.
And if her parents would
have been appalled, she at least was finally putting some
of their lessons to good use, in this environment where
your pay depended partly on how much overpriced champagne
you could peddle to the leering clientele.
"I always had my parents'
sales agenda, that I could sell anybody anything. So I guess
I was pretty popular, and my confidence started getting
bigger and bigger ... It was kind of cool."
She eventually discovered
other ways to make money at the club, once she realized
what the older women were doing when they disappeared into
back rooms with the clientele. But the fun ended when the
club found out she was underage.
After graduating from
high school, she studied accounting for four years, acquiring
the knowledge that would leave her books in such good order
years later in Frederick that even an IRS audit gave them
a clean bill of health.
She applied for an accounting
job at a U.S. military base, but those positions were full,
so she took an opening as an interpreter for the Military
Police. It was another walk on the wild side, with drunks
and wailing German women, crying as their soldier boys got
tossed into the pokey.
She met a guy, an American
named Paul Potter. They got hitched, and in 1985 they moved
to the states after he left the military. It was time to
settle down, raise a family. But she found herself in the
middle of nowhere, a place called Harrison Valley, Pa.
"It's known for its big
hunting seasons, year round," she said. "You've got about
10 people on 40 miles, and 6,000 deer. And I managed to
make it like this for two months. I went insane. I mean,
to this day I only have one pair of sneakers, and they have
heels on them, OK? I said I couldn't live like that. And
off I went."
First stop, New York.
Second stop, Washington.
"For the next few years,
I did everything from driving a cab to being a waitress,
working as a receptionist, working as an accountant, working
in sales."
She applied for a job
selling cars. The manager was skeptical.
"And I said, listen, I
am my father's daughter, and I can (expletive] anybody out
of anything. And he pointed me out some guy and said, try
and sell him a car. It was one of his salespeople."
Her pitch impressed him.
"So that's how I got into
the car industry," she said.
The art of persuasion
Her biggest success was
selling used cars in Rockville, where the way of doing business
seemed strikingly similar to that of the world's oldest
profession.
"We shoved people into
cars and said, 'Hope it doesn't fall apart!' ... Then the
interest rate dropped and people were standing in line to
buy cars, so we jacked the price up. And people laid down.
I was amazed. I loved it ... Then you have the big breasted
girls come in and try to sell you $5,000 worth of rust protection,
which they always got, and usually a date on top of that.
She wanted to buy a house,
but prices for those were high as well. So she moved up
the interstate to Walkersville, just outside Frederick,
buying a condo for $100,000. But she wanted to go into business
for herself, and saw her chance in the classifieds of the
Frederick News Post: A used clothing store was for sale
downtown. She bought it in 1993, re-opening as Quality Consignment.
"And I marketed. I had
midnight madness specials, 50 percent off from midnight
to 2 a.m. I took half-page ads in the News Post. Hey, marketing
is everything. I printed 5,000 fliers and gave kids in the
neighborhood money to give out fliers in every mailbox they
could get their hands on. And I was open seven days a week."
The hard work paid off,
but not enough. She needed quicker-moving items with steeper
markups.
Sexy lingerie was the
answer.
"And I thought, where
do I get this used lingerie, because I always go to yard
sales. And, honey, what you find at Frederick County yard
sales - I pity the men. Because you've got granny undies,
you do not find lingerie in Frederick ... So I said, where
can I find used cool lingerie? Strip clubs!"
The clubs were right down
the road in West Virginia, and the items attracted a whole
new clientele. Transvestites, for one, who also favored
used prom dresses and bridesmaid gowns. Hookers, for another.
Downtown church-lady
types began to complain, but a new opportunity dawned
before they could work
up a head of steam. A customer who worked for a local escort
agency, the French Connection, poured out her woes to Potter
over lunch one day, griping about her boss. Potter pondered
the matter, then suggested the perfect solution: Why not
team up to start their own escort service?
Finding their niche
It was 1995, and Corporate
Affair was born. She told her parents over Christmas, during
a visit to Germany, and while dear old dad was far from
thrilled, his business instincts soon took over.
"You need an accountant,"
he told her. "You need an attorney, a bail bondsman." And
so on.
But mostly what she needed
was customers. So she and her partner raided the opposition,
printing business cards and handing them out every evening
outside the French Connection.
"Every time a guy would
come out we'd say, by the way, we're a new service here
in town. We only have the youngest girls in the city, the
most beautiful girls. None is over the age of 25, and we
are a lot more expensive, but we are worth it. Grin, grin.
Wink, wink ... Business starts booming. And we start advertising."
Police later threw her
ads back in her face, saying they showed she'd been in the
business for ages.
"I said, 'Duh. It's called
marketing.' You think I'm going to go into the paper and
say, 'Brand new escort service, we're all idiots, give us
a try?' No. We have to put out, 'Experienced, European,
classy ladies just relocated to beautiful downtown Frederick.'"
By then she'd met her
second husband, and in 1996 they discovered the Internet.
"I learned in a hurry
everything there was about computers. We needed new markets.
Frederick was tapped out. I mean, every day we'd see the
same ... people. We started with a basement URL, one came
free with your MSN account. Then we bought a domain."
They chatted up techies,
pumping them for information, and soon www.steffiecam.com
was born, eventually offering not only live video but hundreds
of stills of just about anything you could imagine Steffie
doing. To get access to the most revealing stuff you have
to pay with your credit card. The venture was so lucrative
that Potter began winding down the escort trade, announcing
on her site that Corporate Affair would close when its lease
ran out in September 1999.
But Frederick police had
been staking out the place for months, and the bust came
that July. Police raided Potter's home, too, seizing computers
and other equipment. It was soon apparent to prosecutors
that there were problems with the case. A Potter employee
turned out to be a stepdaughter of one of the Frederick
County state's attorney's investigators, so a Montgomery
County prosecutor had to take over. In addition, one of
the star witnesses, a disgruntled employee, stated that
Potter only arranged the liaisons, telling her workers that
what they did with the clients was strictly up to them.
Potter pleaded guilty
to a misdemeanor crime of maintaining a "place of assignation,"
which could mean either a bawdy house or a trysting place
for lovers. She paid a $100 fine and received probation
before judgment. The police returned her computers and business
records, keeping a copy for themselves. And that likely
would have been that, if someone hadn't then made an anonymous
phone call to Charlene Edmonds, president of the local chapter
of the National Association for the Advancement of Colored
People.
Controversy lingers
The caller accused the
police of using their copy of Potter's client list to blackmail
various local officials. Frederick police had already been
caught spying on Edmonds earlier in the year, resulting
in a two-week suspension of Police Chief Regis R. Raffensberger.
The unveiling of that fiasco had also begun with an anonymous
phone call to Edmonds. So, when Edmonds repeated the "black
book" charge at a local meeting late last year, all hell
broke loose, and it has yet to stop.
The News Post and
the Associated Press sued to get Potter's list. Friday,
the NAACP called for a grand jury investigation of the police
and mayor's handling of the matter. While Potter has the
original records back in her computer, the copy remains
in a safe at the Frederick County courthouse.
"People call me and say
I will burn in hell," Potter said. "They say, 'We will be
watching you.'"
And they may well be.
Even as she conducts an interview in her home office, she
continues to do business. There is a video camera in the
room, she said, poking a few papers aside to reveal a tiny
camera perched on her desk. She then clicks a few times
on the computer behind her to prove the point, arriving
at the "office cam" site on her Web page.
Sure enough, there she
is, chatting away, mouse in hand.
Video cameras, in fact,
are up and running at several locations in her house.
"Hey," Potter said, flashing
her Steffie smile. "Marketing is everything."
Reprinted
with permission from the Baltimore Sun.